Neph's feelings<3
Justim♡ : I simply want to provide him a wonderful life and all of love I could ever hope to offer someone. I know he is as kind as he is charming and I want to learn about him for as long as I possibly can. I want to accept him in all his entirety and care for him as much as one possibly can. I want to stay at his side for as long as possible and be there for him in his times of need. I consider him to be the hope of my life and the person I want to be saved by, I cherish him immensely and will stay through everything he faces. He's absolutely stuck with me.
Nana, Regine, Rory, Stephanie, Fer, Lauren, Sully, Maggie, Jam, CRT Chama, Lobo, Webber, Adam, and others : I consider these people to be my friends and to have my back when I need them the most. Sometimes I forget that I have people who love and care for me. And I'm trying to continually remind myself of them whenever possible. I want them to grow as people and explore themselves. With every day I am more prouder than them than the last. They never cease to amaze me and make me think the impossible must be possible. I truly hope these people are here to stay in my life for the long-run.
| ✔ justim boundaries ✔ |
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| kisses all over face, occasional on the lips, long embraces, holding, cooking, kisses on cheek, compliments, intimate conversations, emotionally present conversations, hand holding, playing with hair, love letters, dancing, dates, cuddling, first priority, loyalty, sleeping in the same bed occasionally, talking about kin memories, sharing anything sexual and anything fantasy related at any time whenever needed. |
| ✘ absolute nots ✘ |
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| putting down my friends or my beloved in any shape or form. If I'm venting about someone or talk to someone again and re-invite them into my life, I expect nothing but a willingness to trust in my judgement and that the people I surround myself with have my best interest in mind. do not attempt to down play my friends feelings, thoughts, or actions, every feeling and thought is valid, but actions are not always so. I want my friends to be able to breathe and also take accountability. If you downplay what they experience I'll honestly just end up ghosting or blocking you. |
| notes as of 9/8/24 |
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| All of my relationships are different. I am currently happy where I am, but if you do pursue me romantically or platonically or somewhere a blur, please take the time to know the smaller details and get to know me. Know my work, my passions, my hobbies, these silly things that I like to create. And do your best to try to make me see you, cause I'm honestly pretty blind. |
Neph's Queer Platonic FAQ
qpp♡ : "queerplatonic relationship, also called a quasiplatonic relationship, (abbreviated QPR in both cases), is a term for a relationship that bends the rules for telling apart romantic relationships from non-romantic relationships. It typically goes beyond what is considered normal or socially acceptable for a platonic relationship but is not romantic in nature or does not fit the traditional idea of a romantic relationship."
| ✔ gestures ✔ |
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| holding, cooking, kisses on cheek, compliments, intimate conversations, emotionally present conversations, hand holding, playing with hair, "love" letters, dancing, "dates", cuddling, priority, and loyalty. |
| ✘ absolute nots ✘ |
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| do not overwhelm or treat the relationship just like a romantic one, but also do not treat it as just a friendship for it is neither or both of those things, making it entirely different from that. |
| notes |
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| all queer platonic relationships are different and require a different level of care or intimacy, and attention. most do not need sexual intimacy, there are cases where qp relationships do partake in that though. |
my queerplatonic partners!
Are important to me.
Are very much significant others to me and are very much the same akin to a regular relationship with me.
importance of honesty!
There is an ethical obligation to talk about all details of this thoroughly.
Merry's Kin List!
spirit kin♡ : for me spiritually kinning is to believe that their kin came from the fact that I was a set of characters and creatures in a past life or in an alternate universe. Beliefs include reincarnation of the soul of the character (or creature) I kin, or that I was them in a past life. *MAY NOT BE UPDATED AS OF 10-04-24
| ✔ gestures ✔ |
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| matching or pairing kin |
| matching kin memories |
| talking about kin relationships |
| ✘ absolute nots ✘ |
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| falsifying kin memories to match |
| telling me not to kin certain characters. (spirit kin are not a choice.) |
| notes |
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| i really adore talking about this with people so feel free to ask me about it! |
✧ FICTIVE KIN ✧ (Kin we not only kin but have parts/alters for.)Ada Mesmer (Identity V) ✧
Luca Balsa (Identity V) ✧
Annie Lester (Identity V) ✧
Lily Barriere (Identity V) ✧
Seer/Eli Clark (Identity V) ✧
Emma Woods (Identity V) ✧
Alice De-Ross (Identity V) ✧
Mike Morton (Identity V) ✧
Cherie (Cherry Crush) ✧
Raeliana (Why Raeliana Ended Up at the Dukes Mansion) ✧
Goro Akechi (Persona 5) ✧
Q (BSD) ✧
Lance McClain (Voltron) ✧
Basil (Omori) ✧
Noel Levine (Witch’s Heart) ✧
Nene Yasushiro (Toilet Bound Hanako) ✧
Andrew Graves (Coffin of Andy and Leyley) ✧
Kuroha and Haruka Kokonose (Kagerou Project) ✧
ENA (ENA) ✧
IB (IB) ✧
Iris Black (Countdown to Countdown) ✧
Kanna (Your Turn to Die) ✧
Kantera (End Roll) ✧
Lan Sizhui (Mo Dao Zhu Shi) ✧
Tanaka (Tanaka Wa Itsumo Kedaruge) ✧
Zero Two (Darling in the Franx) ✧
Maple (Your Turn to Die) ✧
Mirielle (End Roll) ✧
Mizuki (Project Sekai) ✧
Nie Huisang (Mo Dao Zhu Shi) ✧
Utsugi (Cell of Emperio) ✧
Phos (Houseki No Kuni) ✧
Shen Yuan / Shen Qingqiu ✧
Reko (Your Turn To Die) ✧
Saber (Fate Stay Night) ✧
Shang Qinghua (Scum Villain’s Self Saving System) ✧
Uraraka Ochako (Boku No Hero Academia) ✧
Yanli Jiang (Mo Dao Zhu Shi) ✧
Yinyu (Heaven’s Official Blessing) ✧
Dia (Housei No Kuni) ✧
Kaoru Seta (Bang Dream) ✧
Kai Satou (Your Turn To Die) ✧
Toga (Boku No Hero Academia) ✧
Rudy (Ghost Eyes) ✧
Naiad or Grace (Identity V) ✧
Yidhra (Identity V)
Ajax Tartaglia (Genshin Impact)
Venti (Genshin Impact) ✧
Colombina (Genshin Impact)
Diluc (Genshin Impact) ✧
Scaramouche (Genshin Impact)
Rui Kamishiro (Project Sekai) ✧
Wei Ying / Wúxiàn (Mo Dao Zhu Shi) ✧
Mika Kagehira (Enstars) ✧
Tatsumi Kazehaya (Enstars)
Souma Kanazaki (Enstars)
Ritsu Sakuma (Enstars)
Xie Lian (Heaven Official Blessing) ✧
Sawako (Kiki No Todoke)
Charles Eyler (Hello Charlotte) ✧
Aqua (Oshi No Ko)
Rosalene (To The Moon)
Ashley (Resident Evil)
Kirito (Sword Art Online) ✧
Isagi Yoichi (Blue Lock)
Nanami Momozono (Kamisama Kiss) ✧
Angel (Chainsaw Man) ✧
Dazai Osamu (Bungo Stray Dogs) ✧
Dokja Kim (Omniscient Readers Point of View.) ✧
Mikoto Kayano (MILGRAM) ✧
Yuno Kashiki (MILGRAM)
Haruka Sakurai (MILGRAM)
Lauren Sinclair (Purple Hyacinth)
Mina The Mongoose (Sonic)
Amy Rose (Sonic) ✧
Honey The Cat (Sonic)
Cosmo (Sonic)
Ivlis (Okegom) ✧
Ico (Okegom)
Cosmea (Okegom)
Vicers (Okegom)
lzet (Okegom)
Meikai (Okegom)
Wadanohara (Okegom) ✧
Lil (Okegom)
Kiku (Okegom)
Botan (Okegom)
Etihw (Okegom)
Naegi Makoto (Danganronpa) ✧
Pregame Saihara (Danganronpa)
Chihiro Fujisaki (Danganronpa)
Hinata Hajime /Izuru Kamakura (Danganronpa)
Chiaki Nanami (Danganronpa)
Sonia Nevermind (Danganronpa)
Mahiru Koizumi (Danganronpa)
Komaru Naegi (Danganronpa)
Nagisa Shingetsu (Danganronpa)
Shuichi Saihara (Pregame and Ingame.)
Korekiyo (Danganronpa)
Pregame Kokichi (Danganronpa)
Maki Harukawa (Danganronpa)
Takumi Hijijhara (Danganronpa)
Izayoi Sōnosuke (Danganronpa)
Chisa Yukizome (Danganronpa)
Miaya Gekkogahara (Danganronpa)
Yui Samidare (Danganronpa)
Junko Enoshima/Ryoko (Ryoko) (Danganronpa)
Asahi Kobe (Happy Sugar life)
Kaori Momozono (Your Lie In April)
Watari Ryota (Your Lie In April)
Kageyama (Haikyuu)
Subaru Akehoshi
Richie Tozier (It 2017+)
Mike Wheeler (Stranger Things)
Hinata Shoyo (Haikyuu!)
Joe Tazuna (YTTD)
Jisuh (From Points Of Three)
Aya Davis (Mad Father)
Ralsei (Deltarune)
Kozakura Marry (Kagepro)
Tamako (Tamako Market Series & Tamako Love Story)
Ellen (Witch’s House)
Raphtalia (Shield Hero)
Yoichi (Owari No Seraph)
Ahiru (Princess Tutu) ✧
Bam (Tower Of God) ✧
Violet Evergarden (VE) ✧
Jinx (Arcane)
Nisaka Yuusuke (Koi To Uso)
Mettaton (Undertale)
Lucy Fuji (Gourmet Hound)
Levy McGarden (Fairy Tail)
Chika Fujiwara (Love is War)
Yui Yamada (Kasesan and Morning Glories)
Rei Taylor (I favor the villainess)
Robin (Fire Emblem)
Myne (Ascendence of a Bookworm)
Julia (Marionetta)
Shin Ae (ILY)
Keira (Actually I was the real one)
Annabeth (PJO)
Edith (edith)
Ori (Tomorrow Won't Come For Those Without)
Silk (Spiderverse)
Cole (Yaelokre)
Mizi (Alien Stage)
S4A2 Miki (Vocaloid)
Haru (Saihate Station)
Connie (Steven Universe)
Suzuya Juuzou (Tokyo Ghoul)
Juvia Lockster (Fairytail)
Asa Mitaka (Chainsawman)
Haruhi Fujioka (OHSHC)
Seiya (Tsurune)
Cocona (Flipper Flappers)
Stede Bonnet (Our Flag Means Death)
Enid (Wednesday)
Mindy Meeks (Scream Franchise)
March 7th (Honkai)
Hanae Ashiya (Fukigen na Mononokean Tsuzuki)
Seele (Honkai)
Russell (End Roll)
Dara Shirazi (Feverwake Series)
Garry (IB)
Minato Arisato (P3)
Cheng Xiaoshi (Link Click)
Leo Valdez (PJO)
Dantalion (Devils and Realist)
Mikaela (Owari No Seraph)
Peter Quill (Starlord)
Shon (Sirens Lament)
Ticci Toby (Creepypasta)
Haru Ichinose (Akuma No Riddle)
Kaworu Nagisa (Neon Ev.)
Koshi (Liar Liar)
Adora (She-Ra)
Angelo Lagusa (91 Days)
Mikasa (Attack On Titan)
Regina Rena (To the Unforgiven)
Oikawa Tooru (Haikyuu)
Lawless (Servamp)
Matsubase
Kafka
Athanasia (Who Made Me A Princess)
Q84 (Hello Charlotte)
Sebastian Michaelis (Black Butler)
Aki/Akito (Misao)
Zen (Mystic Messenger)
Yuyang (Here You Are)
Byleth (FE3H)
Shinya Hiragi (SeraphOTE)
Riddle (Twisted Wonderland)
Izuku Midoryia (Boku No Hero Academia)
Miss Joke (Boku No Hero Academia)
Vanessa (FNAF)
Julis Alexia von Riessfeld (Asterisk War)
Emilia The Hero (Devil is a Part Timer)
Yona (Of the Dawn)
Lisbeth (Sword Art Online)
Shin Tsumiki (Your Turn to Die)
Harley Keener (Ironlad)
Shinomiya (Kiss Him Not Me)
Eiji (Banana Fish)
Hiyori (Blue Lock)
Sirius Gibson (Witch's Heart)
Gwen (Spiderman)
Dipper Pines (Gravity Falls)
Maka Albarn (Soul Eater)
Kiyoko (Haikyuu)
Sakuya (Servamp)
Ranpo Edogawa (BSD)
Goldia (Pocket Mirror)
Tamaki Amajiki (BNHA)
Mituna (Homestuck)
Kankri (Homestuck)
Kanaya (Homestuck)
Jade (Homestuck)
Cassie (FNAF)
Agape (SHTDN) ✧
Bok Su (Married in Red) ✧
Maeno Aki (Zeno)
Shintaro (Kagerou Project)
Kanou (Cell of Empireo)
Theodore/Seodore (Cell of Empireo)
Cosmo (Sonic)
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MC (Mystic Messenger)
Shinya Kurai (OKEGOM)
Lzet (OKEGOM)
Wodahs (The Gray Garden)
Ciel (Okegom)
Evil (Okegom)
Sebastian Michaelis (Black Butler)
Elizabeth Midford (Black Butler)
Nico Niiyama (Kiznaiver)
Katsuhira Agata (Kiznaiver)
Gear (Evillious Chronicles)
Milky Eights (Evillious Chronicles)
puppy / seo-yoon (puppy love)
jaewon/wyld (lost one translation)
athy (who made me a princess)
katrina claes (my next life as a villainess)
hijiri matsubase (sachi-iro no one room)
nisaka yuuske (koi to uso)
dorian (hooky)
Sakastuki (Okegom)
Bubblegum (Adventure time)
Gary (Fiona and Cake)
Betty (AT and FAC)
Prismo (AT and FAC)
Rantaro Amami (Danganronpa)
Souda Kazuichi (Danganronpa)
Shirogane (Okegom)
Fischl - Genshin
Eula - Genshin
Kokomi - Genshin
Furina - Genshin
Chongyun - Genshin
Heizou - Genshin
Sucrose - Genshin
Harumi Taniguchi (Citrus)
Aihara Mei (Citrus)
Maka Albarn (Soul Eater)
Touko Nanami (Bloom Into You)
Christine (Be More Chill)
Madostuki (Yume Nikki) ✧
Niko (Oneshot) ✧
miwa tomoe (on air)
Aerith (Final Fantasy)